Your wedding is quickly approaching! You have successfully laid the foundation for what will be the most special day of your life up until now and you are well on your way to having an incredible and memorable wedding. And now comes the wedding day details.
3 Tips for Keeping Your Head Above Water While Planning Wedding Day Details
The three things that you went over with your partner that are the most essential elements of the wedding to each of you, helping you decide on your budget plan, can be used here also. Not only are those the three things that you will be spending the most money on, but the most time planning as well. This is tip # 1! You’re the bride-to-be and unless you have hired a wedding planner, YOU are in charge of the details, and there are a LOT of details. Keep your eye on the ball and don’t get bogged down spending hours on the phone with florists if you don’t care that much about flowers. If you just want a pretty white dress and aren’t aren’t fussy about the detailing or shape, why take your entire bridal party plus both moms and that one aunt who once babysat you to thirty different fittings? Which leads us to tip #2…
Don’t get trapped by obligatory inclusions. This day is your celebration. However these people are family and friends that have been with you through thick and thin, that helped mold you into the individual you are today. Some have been with you since way prior to what’s-his-face came along. And some have been with you through the entire relationship, the excellent and the… not as good. You owe them right? Wrong. Nope. Step away. Danger danger. There are lots of ways of showing your appreciation and respect for a person as opposed to guilt and even-calling. Constantly keep in the back of your mind, as well as in the front of you mind, this party is yours. You’re the hostess, sure, but more importantly: you are the star appearance, the reason, the focus, the whole celebration.
D.I.Y. Just DIY. You have a wedding court for a reason, more than simply helping you get dressed beforehand. Popping the “will you be my bridesmaid?” question is such a big deal because they are signing their lives away for the next year or so to be your wedding planning slave, riding your emotional roller coaster, and being able to come to your aid at 3am when you have a melt down to feed you wine infused ice cream. Throw regular DIY parties throughout your engagement. Serve wine and chicken nuggets, they’ll come. Producing your very own decorations is an excellent way to save cash and tailor your event. It’s also a terrific way to bond with everybody you recruit, plus they’ll love that they had a hand producing the work of art that is: your wedding.
Whether you’re the boss of a lavish traditional Columbia SC wedding or you are jumping an airplane to Jamaica, focusing on the above truths will certainly release some pressure from your delicately toned shoulders. You should remember your wedding and really be able to enjoy it. Why should the planning be any different?